Esteem The Lord your God more than everything. Just as you use your cell phone, strive to talk to your God more.
Matthew 6:33 (KJV) - " But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."
Set aside time to be alone with God. Try to do it at the same time everyday. As He wills give it as much time as you can to seek the Father on your own behalf. Let God show you in the Word, Let God tell you in your spirit, and Please allow God to tell you through your Leader what gifts are in you. There is a differance in what people tell you without seeking God. They may tell you that you are a youth worker, and because you want to help, you may find yourself in a very miserable place. Letting them down as well as letting yourself down. What is it that you are good at without really trying? What is it that you really take joy in doing? Some people like working with numbers, people, kids, or writing. As you began to look for the gift of God in your life you may find that you have been using the gift all of your life. Well Now that you know, learn to use it for the Kingdom.
I personally have always served in one way or another. I chose to care for the Elderly, restoring them to the highest level of function by doing Physical Therapy for 20 years. Now in the Kingdom, it is all about restoration to the Father, Restoring trust, faith, relationship, and knowledge to the Body of Christ. My mandate is to restore, Praise , Worship and Warfare to the Body of Christ.
a. Why am I here in the earth realm, what is my purpose?
b. What are my Gifts from you and how do I use them?
c. Lead me to those who can help me become skillful.
d. Use me and all that you have given me as you will for your Glory.